HOW TO DATE - Version 3.0 How soon do you expect to find a girlfriend after you read this book? The first thing you do after you read this book is to follow these simple steps to spot the woman who is likely to be interested in you, the second step is to get her attention, the third step is to get her interested enough in you, and the fourth step is to build on that interest until it becomes a passion.. You may be able to find someone with your first attempt, but it may take upto three or four attempts to hit the right relationship.. it may take a day or it may take a week...